A few years ago, shortly after I put away the Thanksgiving dishes, I started to panic. How would I get Christmas together? My heart raced and my palms felt sweaty as I thought of everything I had to do before the big day – shop, decorate, bake, wrap gifts, clean, cook, and attend celebrations. Wait a minute. Isn’t this supposed to be fun?
I had a hectic to-do list that day, but at the last minute I decided to attend Bible study. Deep in my heart, I knew I needed to go. I’m glad I did, because the teacher performed a demonstration that helped me prioritize my Santa bag sized to-do list.
“The sand and rocks represent the busy things that eat up your time but don’t have eternal value,” the teacher said. “Think about activities and errands that take time but really are not essential. You’ll notice that all these rocks won’t fit into the jar. That’s because I have chosen to make the non-essential, trivial things in my life the foundation. Now I have little room for Jesus, the Rock.”
Then she dumped the contents of the jar onto a pan and separated the sand, pebbles, and rocks. “Let’s see what happens when we fix our eyes on Jesus, our Rock and Savior, and make him the priority in our lives. “
This time, she put the large rocks on the bottom of the jar. “Now let’s see if I can add some of the lesser important activities.” Next she added the pebbles, and later the sand.
“Now I have room to fit in other activities because I have made Jesus the foundation.” All the rocks, pebbles, and sand fit into the jar. “This is your life, and you have choices on how you spend your time. Let’s ask God to help us prioritize so we give our time to what’s really important – especially during the Christmas season.”
Driving home, I decided not to give in to the hustle-bustle of Christmas. I know many people who like to shop, bake, decorate, and prepare for Christmas. But to me it was starting to feel like a Martha Stewart Christmas Comparison Contest. Agony and stress pumped through my blood, and I felt overwhelmed.
That‘s when I decided to peel back the layers of Christmas. I would do only what felt most important and that I enjoyed. I cut down on shopping, decorating, baking, and celebrating.
We peeled Christmas down to the heart. That year, we had a small tree and displayed our beautiful nativity to remind us daily of the heart of Christmas. Since I love to write, and our friends and family expect to receive a Christmas story in the mail the first week of December, I put that at the top of the list.
We enjoyed a beautiful, stripped-down Christmas. Instead of worn out and waiting for the holidays to end, I felt energized, grateful, and focused on the Jesus and the gift of the cross – the true heart of Christmas.
I’m grateful I attended Bible study that hectic day in December because I gained the gift of prioritizing during the holidays. Now I recall the jar demonstration every year, and focus on the beauty and glory of the season.
I’m much better at avoiding getting swept up into the insanity of trying to create the most spectacular Christmas ever.
I don’t have to worry about that because it started on the first Christmas when God came to earth as our Savior. It was paid for on the cross.
That, I remind myself, is the heart of Christmas.